In other words, either he wears the condom, or you don't have sex, and he wants to have sex.
"The only way a guy is gonna put a condom on is when the girl says 'I'm not gonna have sex with you until you put a condom on'" but he shouldn't complain, he should feel honored to have sex with you!
Watch the first five minutes of Girl Code on Contraception, they're pretty funny and there's some truth to it: