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My heart breaks for you. You so deserve more. That was so unfair of your husband to take your day away from you. He should realize that you need time for yourself. Everyone needs time alone and you are no exception. I would plan time alone again and tell him that you are taking it, no matter what.
I'm sorry your son isn't keeping contact with you as much as you would like. I hope next time that he will give you an email addy or phone number or address or something, so you can contact him. What if, God forbid, someone dies and you need to let him know? If he calls, tell him this, tell him it is important that you can contact him when you need to.
I hope things will get brighter for you. Anytime you need to talk, you can pm me if you want or even if it's coming on here to talk.
Good luck to you,
LInda