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Old Jul 28, 2013, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by High Treason View Post
While I used to think that having a woman "cheat" on me would be like the worst thing to happen ever, I now can't imagine demanding that (1) a woman I am involved with restrict her sexual activity only to me, and I wouldn't want to be with (2) anyone who would try to do that to me either.
that is very nicely put, in that you FIRST care about your partner's choices and only then, secondarily, about yours. Very very nice, indeed, and commendable.

To George - people who rationalize their behavior typically simply cheat while citing any law of nature that fits comfortably. Many go much further by rationalizing cheating for themselves while using a double standard with their spouses - a very common scenario in ostensibly monogamous couples.

HT is not doing any of that.

That said, the natural/unnatural talk is probably not the most helpful due to the fact that "natural" is so poorly defined and so much abused as a word (cyanide is natural, too, but we still should not consume it). HT, can we talk about it without referencing the laws of nature? Because if we try so hard to be natural, we might just end up without the Internet - the Internet is not natural.