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Originally Posted by Blegh.
Well I'm not sure if there will be any female doctors taking new patients right now. And I kind of need a doctor right now. Everytime I bring it up she says "stop focusing on the negative past stuff" and then she leaves the room. It's like this with everything.
I ask her about if I'm going back to school or changing schools, and she gets angry. All I want is an answer so I can enjoy my summer. If I don't work on what I'm doing for school I feel like I'm doing nothing to help myself. She keeps saying that I need to help myself, but I'm not even allowed to talk out my problems without being yelled at. This is a horrible mess... I don't know if you would 'get' what's going on with my education...
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What's going on with your education?
About your mom, maybe your mom feels at a loss not knowing how to help you and/or maybe she has mood issues too that she has avoided dealing with. Regardless of what's going on with her, it makes a lot of sense that her lack of empathy, patience and support only makes things even harder for you. I hope whichever dr/therapist you go to that they listen and work WITH you. Remember, they are essentially getting hired by YOU to help YOU.
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