Well, we all know that bears required lots of attention. Sorry if I haven't been able to show you lately.
Those of us with pain, mood, or other type of swings in our lives have trouble moderating giving and receiving attention both. I know often when I am crashing from pain and/or depression, I stay away for a while (short) and usually show up once I've crashed.. and then Post my complaints with life.
Then, when I happen to have computer time and brain time together, I also come in then, to try and encourage others.
And I'm not generally shy, so I can imagine those who are normally quiet and shy, well, it's only crisis time that we hear from them.
http://www.bearden.org/memory.html
I posted this on your other post too... do you know your bears, bear?
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