Thanks everyone!

He asked for help, so I'm just taking care of my own personal bills for now (I have the debit card, he doesn't want it again - he only had it, because I didn't trust myself to not use it recently.. but that backfired lol!)

We had switched accounts with our internet provider, and there was a BIG mixup (they didn't cancel his account, but added it to mine, even tho we're in the same house).. but, he's on it, fixing that up and keeping on top of it.

I see a huge difference in him since last week, he's been way more open, maybe it was one of those things, that he had to "break" to get out of the old pattern, no matter what the reason he was in it.

Mistakes made on both sides, but nothing that can't be worked on and remedied with some cooperation and communication. He's finally getting that concept after trying to hard to be Superman, and failing. But we all have to fail to learn, and improve

He started a new job that's going to bring in triple what I make, so once we get through this rough patch between pay periods, I think we'll be ok. Until then.. where's the wine!