((((((((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))))))))))
Yes, sometimes it feels like the light at the end of the tunnel is a train!

You aren't being a baby, those things are stressful! I hope the two of you can continue to ask ppl for help and allowances through this tough time, rather than just take what comes. I also hope that the two of you will draw closer to each other, as love can win out over anything.