I'll try to answer your question. I believe in monogamy for myself - I truly don't want another man if I'm being fulfilled sexually and emotionally. If I truly love then I don't want anther man and don't feel deprived. True no one should be forced into monogamy if it doesn't come willingly - same as I should be forced into accepting this from my partner if he doesn't want to be loyal. Its natural for me and its fine if its not natural for you. I just hope you'll find other who believe the same to avoid hurting other women. I believe in a deep connection (love) and when that's happening I don't want anyone else.