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Originally Posted by High Treason
It's kind of funny that when I talk to people in person about this, I often get monogamists coming back at me with "Yeah of course you want to sleep with other women, but what would you do if your girlfriend was sleeping with another man? huh?" and thinking they have somehow refuted my position. I tell them "I would ask her to be safe about it and to let me know where she is going to be in case she runs into any problems." These people are usually dumbfounded because they're just not able to conceive of a situation in which someone could be fine with that. They usually conclude that I'm just lying.
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I conclude you're lying and I don't think you're fine with it, because this scenario has your partner informing you of her whereabouts, ostensibly "in case she runs into any problems" but it feels to me like you need to retain control of her actions by at least knowing about them. Safety is just an excuse. I wouldn't care for having to report my every move to you like this. You're all talk and I am getting no action!!