P.S....he gets a little upset at times when I go out with my friends which isn't more than once a week, or twice a week with a different friend. I don't spend too much when I'm out usually. He yells at me to clean the house even when I'm tired. When he doesn't yell at me, he tells me to clean the house in a mean way and that when I don't do it right away, he gets mad at me.

I tell him to not yell at me and then he tells me that if he doesn't, nothing would ever get done. Even when I do it, he rarely says much about anything other than the fact that I did something wrong or I failed to put away the laundry when I did everything else, ugh! He is so mean that I wish I could leave him, but I can't due to finances and having nowhere to go! It seems as if he only views me as maid that exists only to clean, cook (although I rarely due that anymore due to resenting him so much), and having sex with.

Same story. I haven't had sex with him in months since I can't stand him sometime. He does nothing for me. He is a pig who makes me feel bad about myself sometimes by calling me fat, lazy, stupid...and a ***** sometimes. He rarely says anything nice to me anymore. His behaviour isn't consistent. He can actually act decent towards me sometimes which is weird. Is there anyway that I can get him to treat me with respect and kindness? My friends told me that if I cook, clean, and have sex with him more, that he'll be nicer. Is it really that simple? Is that the cause of his nastiness and stinginess?