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Originally Posted by hankster
I conclude you're lying and I don't think you're fine with it, because this scenario has your partner informing you of her whereabouts, ostensibly "in case she runs into any problems" but it feels to me like you need to retain control of her actions by at least knowing about them. Safety is just an excuse. I wouldn't care for having to report my every move to you like this. You're all talk and I am getting no action!!
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Ok... then by all means don't tell me. I don't mind that much, I guess. I just think if you're a woman hooking up with some random guy, it might be nice if someone knew where you were. That's all.
Actually your response is somewhat interesting because it's a perfect example of how people take what they believe, assume everyone else believes the same way, and then interpret everything anyone else says as evidence that they do believe the same, throwing out the parts that don't fit as "just an excuse" or some other such thing.