Hope this isn't your situation, but if it is, my advice is to quietly start setting aside what you can. Also contact your local domestic violence / women's center for advice and help in getting you out of this situation.
"Economic Abuse" indicators are around the 10:00 position on the wheel ...
It isn't easy, but it can be done ... Good Luck & Best Wishes!
Sincerely,
Pfrog
ps. They'll help you acquire the skills you need to find gainful employment and provide you with a safe place including food, clothing and shelter during the process!