Thanks again Simon. You've really opened my eyes to my husbands "attention seeking" issue. I guess I always knew it was there, but you've connected the dots, so to speak.

And thanks to you too Booper, you're right, my husband has tested everything I am made of in the last four years. He has made me question my choices, and compromise my self respect, but I stood in front of friends and family and took very serious vows, and I intend to try to make this work until I've run out of options. I owe at least that much to myself, him and the kids.

Thanks so much to you all. I will keep you posted.

xo
wounded1