My husband used to complain that having sex with a condom on was like taking a shower while wearing a raincoat. It is true that your vagina is designed to make him feel good and I am sure it does. When we were dating each other though when he did not want to wear a condom because he said he wouldn't feel as much, I told him that if he didn't he would get to feel anything at all. The bottom line really is do you want to end up pregnant. If you are at all fertile that is definitely a risk. In this respect not all women are alike. It also depends on your age. Things slow down after you are in your 30's.

After we were married 11 years ago I wanted to get pregnant ans we gave up condoms. Unfortunately it did not happen. Marriage is really the place for sex. It would be better to wait but if you are not going to, then \you need birth control if you do not want to get pregnant. If he is or has been sleeping with other girls, they are absolutely essential to keep you safe from STD's Like some of the other posters have indicated they do come in a variety of styles. I would at least try some different types