That's what I'm starting to ask myself. Am I unloveable? Am I supposed to spend my entire life alone?

I say this because I can never get past two dates with someone before we either drift off because we're not actually that interested in each other, or I end up scaring them off. Since it's me that keeps having these issues, then I must be the one with the problem. I fear I may be too intense............ not intentionally of course, I just like putting my all into it and I like to get to know the person, but I guess that puts them off.

At this point I'm just getting tired of trying and always failing. I know I'm only 21, but I haven't even had my first kiss and I personally think that's lame.

So maybe you all can help me determine what I'm doing wrong, or if I'm supposed to be alone the rest of my life.

Ask whatever you'd like, I don't mind.