It's not that you're unlovable, it's that you don't love
yourself. If you don't love yourself, you'll always be seeking someone's approval (if that someone dumps you, you beat yourself up over it). Let me quote from a user from another site:
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Please surround yourself with people who build you up, who make you feel wonderful, who truly support you. Ask your inner self, it will tell you who those people are. If you cannot hear an inner voice, it is highest time to stop suppressing it, be the best friend to your ‘little me’. If I may suggest, I spend couple of hours every week to talk on paper to my inner self. Ask questions like: (your name), what do you truly think about this ? And write everything your souls tells you, even if it is the darkest thought. I promise, you will be amazed how more confident you will be after some time, when you know you are your best friend, when you give yourself time to listen to yourself, so you will not have to ask everyone around what they think. When you are the best person to be your friend you are no longer afraid of being lonely, because you are enough. You will no longer be desperate to be with someone because of fear, but because you choose to.
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