Thanks everyone for your responses

I want to see what the life coach has to offer.

I was watching an interview on tv with Sara Blakeley who is the founder of the Spanx undergarment company and at 42 the youngest female billionaire. She said her dad would tell her that if she wasn't failing she wasn't going to succeed.

Boy would I like to have her as a coach!

I don't think I am sick. In fact if I could have what I wanted out of life I would forget about my mom no questions asked.

I think a good parent prepares their kid to be successful and confident and I got mixed messages because of my parents problems. So I need coaching in how to be successful.

I wasn't abused or neglected. There were some good moments in my childhood but overall I'm not getting what I want out of life.

I think I will see psych and coach both.