Favourite Jeans that’s a good question and my honest answer would have to be (very unrealistic!) that I want the reassurance of knowing that if I needed to call at say 2am then I would be ‘allowed’. I’m not sure what it would look like realistically, because whatever’s realistic is always dependent on what’s actually on offer. I suppose my issue is that my neediness is so huge and all encompassing that it couldn’t ‘realistically’ be met anyway . But that doesn’t stop me from needing it