Hi, I'm sorry that we are going through this. I have OCD too.
Currently, I am trying to control my severe fear of hurting others.
I did some research online, and I found this link. You may want to read this article.
http://www.ocdonline.com/articlephillipson2.php
That article helped me realize, that I have Responsibility OC.
Wishing us all well.
take care.