I know you love your parents. You don't say how old you are, but I assume you are pretty young. Your friend did the right thing. I'm sorry if you don't like that but there is no reason for an adult to beat a child. Your father did a bad thing and you will suffer from that abuse for years to come, you just don't see it yet. I'm really sorry your family is being torn apart but don't blame your friend. She was just trying to protect you. I'm also sorry your mom beats on you. That is not right either, even if you can't follow the rules beating is not the way to cope with the issue. I feel really bad for you. Hope you stay safe.
Gayle