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I'm sorry if you don't like that but there is no reason for an adult to beat a child. Your father did a bad thing and you will suffer from that abuse for years to come, you just don't see it yet. I'm really sorry your family is being torn apart but don't blame your friend. She was just trying to protect you. I'm also sorry your mom beats on you.
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Im 16, but it doesnt make me a child. Ive been through enough hell to handle adult situations. Either way, it sounds a lot worse then it is when you put it that way. My mom usually only hits me if I attack her or something.
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You are not responsible for the physical abuse he hits you with.
I know you love your parents. This is not about that. When it comes to physical hurt, it goes in order of severity: spanking, using a belt, bruising, hitting, kicking, drawing blood, breaking bones, causing head injuries.
Somewhere in that line is a level of abuse that is worthy of the police. Breaking bones clearly is. Many people believe that spanking is as bad as it can get before the police SHOULD be called. What is the typical level of abuse that you get?
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Really, i am. He'll only hit me if he has a reason to, like if i mess up.
Belting, smacking, getting kicked once in a while, but I dont think its abuse. Where the line of abuse is is so different for everyone, shouldnt the person getting 'abused' at least give someone permission to call the cops before they do and their entire life is changed?
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Do you have somebody at school who you can talk to like a counselor or a favorite teacher who can help? Please try to get some professional help.
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I already see a few therapists and a psychiatrist.
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If you think you could, try to get your mother to see a counsellor to deal with her anger and stress, even if you say it's for yourself but would like her to come along.
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She does, for bipolar disorder. I dont know what he says to her though, and she'd never tell anyone she hits me. Shes got a good reputation haha.