First of all, I'm a guy with no life. I have dysthymia, social anxiety and avoidance personality disorder. I've been like this for 40 years which is why I'm a 56 (soon to be 57) year-old virgin. I'm sure this must sound impossible to some people. Well, it's not. I've never had a girlfriend either, so you can imagine the frustration that is my life. Ironically, I'm more comfortable talking casually to women than I am with men. That is, when I'm able to talk to women at all. I know some women don't mind if a guy is a virgin but I've gotten the impression that they're in the minority. Especially someone my age. Not looking for advice, just wanted to get this off of my chest. Anyone else in a similar, middle-aged situation?