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Old Jul 31, 2013, 04:14 AM
Intuition Intuition is offline
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Yes, I guess so.
Actually I've know a guy who behaved similarly. He was dating a psychologist, which was a bit lucid, but he drove the poor girl crazy and blamed her all the time for everything. She broke up with him several times. I have no idea where it stands now, but you could barely talk to both of them. At the merest hint of criticism they shut down completely and become passive aggressive. No sensible conversation is possible.

Well, not looking forward to seeing the guy again :-/ I blocked his updates on my fb timeline and he can't see me on the chat, and of course I stopped interacting with him in any shape or form.
I thought about removing him but since I will seem him again almost every week, I am not sure about wanting to go the hostile route either. It would be weird.

I am tired of this frankly. It looks like it's gonna be difficult to have a normal, friendly relationship with him after he offered friends with benefits (gee, I'm still so moved that he thought I was "super hot" but otherwise not worthy of his attention).

I wonder why I always end up in this situation. But here he was the one who contacted me. I didn't pick him.
Apparently I also silently attract this type of guys. I must look too understanding or something. If they want absolute understanding, they can only find fault with me when I turn out to be normal, which means sometimes upset with them.

So maybe I should drop some nasty comments in every conversation