Hey...

What you're doing here is old fashioned dating - or courting. So you've had three enjoyable dates and yet you're measuring the success on it on not ending up having sex? What are your thoughts on slowing down? Do you object to having fun, hanging out with 'an interesting and cool person' as you put it simply because you're not having sex? I think it may be good to change your way of thinking with this lady - she obviously wants to get to know you better before she sleeps with you and to me that's not a bad thing.

If you are bored tho because she isn't the person for you then give up. But if you're bored because she hasn't slept with you in just three dates then perhaps you need to change your expectations and thinking patterns. Not everybody has sex on their first, second, third date.....