I call ********!!!

I have bipolar and I don't abuse my bf or blame everything on bipolar either.
Sometimes life is shyt, that's not BP, sometimes work tried to kill me, that's not bp, sometimes I'm exhausted and moody, that's not BP.

See what I'm saying? There is more to an individual than their diagnosis, life is still happening we are not cocooned in a label.

Your GF seems to be taking the easy way out IMO.
Using BP as an excuse to treat you like shyt is a cheap shot, your GF needs to take responsibility for her actions. End of story, no ifs buts or ands.

BP does not mean being triggered left right and center by conversations, your GF sounds more Borderline to me, and no I can't diagnose, but I have that diagnosis too, so not too hard to spot if you know what to look for.

If you doubt my opinion, re-post this in the BP forum, I assure you that everyone will sing a similar tune to mine...

You deserve better you know, you are worthy of respect and just because someone is mentally ill doesn't mean you should forfeit it