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Originally Posted by leftlanepassing
Question for you, Im not sure this will help you, but maybe help me understand- when you get angry with your husband but are able to control your anger around others, is your anger directly related to him or something he did? Or is it just that its safe to "release" that anger on him? Do you blame him for your anger?
I apologize for all the questions- Im trying to help sort thru some issues in my life. Any insight..
Thanks and the best of luck. I hear lamicital is the miracle med!
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Hi leftlane, I think the reason I unleash on him is because it's safe. That's where the guilt/remorse come in. I feel so guilty for verbally abusing someone - - and that's what I consider it when I lash out way out of proportion to the perceived "harm." I think deep down I knew he would take it. It just seems so ugly to me because it reminds me of my mom lashing out at my dad for no reason, and him just turning the other cheek.
This morning was MUCH better. No morning anger for the first time in a couple of weeks. Not sure why!?
Thank you for the good luck wishes. Hope you're doing well. :-)