Thanks for the responses. I appreciate your insight trippin- I agree and have stated that in the past, that BP is not an excuse for bad behavior, that got me nowhere. I also brought up my thoughts on borderline, she is not on board with that thought process whatsoever.

I really think she needs different meds and consistent therapy. Every conversation is ending in an "episode" at this point. Im disengaging until she at least recognizes what she is doing. Sucks cause we were supposed to be on vacation together and the last two were cancelled due to "episodes".

Thanks again for your thoughts.