My husband says he's frustrated with me. The other day I told him I felt pretty good and that things seem to be getting back to normal, and he said he was pessimistic about it b/c every time I'm starting to feel normal, something happens after a while and I end up in the hospital. I'm really trying this time. My meds are straight and I'm seeing a therapist. I'm trying to get my pain under control and starting to exercise more. I tried to get him to come walking with me last night, but he wouldn't come b/c I don't walk far enough or fast enough. He's really being an *** and I don't know what to do. Most of the time we're ok, but then something will happen and we'll have a screaming match. I don't even remember what it was about the next day, b/c my short term memory is shot. We have a lot of good times, but his comments get to me. Apparently, I can't tell him I'm sad/in pain anymore, because that makes him want to rage on me....idk why. I just want someone to validate my feelings, and I'm not getting it from him. Maybe I should take him to counseling with me. I doubt he would go. But I'm not sure how to fix this.