I don't know why people do this...

I used to go to a church a long time ago in a different city from where I live now. I was so happy to find some of the people I loved and considered like family on FB. But I've changed. I am still a Christian, but I no longer believe as narrowly as I used to. The worst part is that it matters to some of them... The pastor & his wife won't even "friend" me on FB, even though they have many other friends and their children have friended me. In fact, the pastor recently friended my son.

Being black listed can hurt, but I try to look at it as their loss, not mine.

I am sorry you feel alone at work and hope you can deal with it better as the days go by.