Hi,
My boyfriend of 2yrs+ broke up with me 10 days ago.We were having constant arguments for 5 weeks before that.I think its due to the fact that we took each other for granted and we stopped communicating well.The night we broke up he said he was too frustrated to continue our relationship. He blames me for breaking up our good communication pattern we had,I blame him.He is the type of person that just shuts down when he gets frustrated or stressed. I would like to save my relationship because I love him deeply. I know he loves me as well.But due to how he is now....frustrated..its like talking to a wall. So I had decided to stop contacting him after the break up and give him space to think and relax.However,it has been 10 days,I dont know where to go from here.We have shared an amazing 2 years.I think it is too much to throw away for something that we can fix,i.e.,how we communicate. Based on the type of person he is,what do I do from here? Do i just wait for him to contact me? Or do I give it some time? people keep telling me if he loves me he will come back but.....im not the type to sit around waiting and hoping things will happen. But in this case,I dont know what to do and im scared of losing the man I love forever.We are both in our early 20s by the way,had planned on buying a house soon and getting married next year. I dont want to give up on the man I love.