No, I just don't visit often. I actually want to read the book for the information and examples provided. I am incapable of using self-help books. I don't think I can solve this problem by my own, but from what I have found out the book is about Sexual Avoidance Disorder and it does seem to ring some trough. This might be just sexually oriented anxiety, but I do know it is a problem for me.

Thank you for posting and I am sorry for the late answer. I should be coming here more often.