I just found out my wife of 5 years has had an affair. I love her to death, and I know that I will not make it thru this , even if I should alone, what I mean is what should I do? I do love her, I feel heartbroken, and violated, what can I do? I want to work this out, but inside I feel I should just move on, we have no kids, and she had this affair twice on me. She said it is over with him and her, but I cannot trust her, I dont even want to be in the same house, what should I do? Can someone please help me??

I cannot trust her at all, every time she leaves the house you know what I am thinking, I am lost right now, about to loose it, I need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!