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Originally Posted by gayleggg
Anyone who is this set in his ways and refuses counseling, is not planning on changing. He sees nothing wrong with the way he is treating you and there is no reason for him to change because you are taking the abuse. I really feel for you because I see your issues for not being able to leave, but I wouldn't expect any change in your situation. I"m sorry if this seems harse, but I've been there and took it until I had to leave. I'm sorry anyone has to go through what you are going through. 
Gayle |
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Hi Gayle, I'm afraid that you're right about everything you said-
I can't leave for now since I have no place to go, no job, and nowhere to stay (even for a night), ugh! I'm trying to find work and my bff is an accountant, plus she's been divorced before and has dealt with men like him, so she'll know how to help me if I ever need it. She told me that once I get a job, I can file my taxes seperately.
You're not being harsh, you're just being honest in a nice way. Sorry to hear what you've been through! Congrats on having the courage to leave! What steps did you take prior to leaving your ex? Did you save up money from a job? Any advice that you can give me would be great!
Angie