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I really don't know your personal situation, so can't comment on that, but generally speaking I think it's good practice to keep in mind that as much as we suffer, it probably is hard at times to be on the other side of us as well. In this sense, our loved ones can sometimes use some validation (in what ways they are hurt by our illness) and compassion as well. It goes both ways, and our significant others may have their own issues for which they need support as well. This is, of course, easier to be aware of when things are going relatively well, and not when in the grips of some sort of episode, but something to keep in mind, nonetheless.
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