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Originally Posted by rainbow8
4. She doesn't think she's made mistakes with me, just changes.
5. She agreed she could have said the hand-holding and answering emails may not be "forever".
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That's very black and white thinking, though. A lot of us do this: we think that you're either right or you're wrong. If you could have done it differently, it means you made a mistake, you screwed up, you should feel bad.
I think Rainbow's T has the confidence to say she could have done something differently. You can often do things differently. It doesn't mean you should necessarily be in the doghouse, as it were.