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Old Aug 01, 2013, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
4. She doesn't think she's made mistakes with me, just changes.
5. She agreed she could have said the hand-holding and answering emails may not be "forever".
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These things seem contradictory to me.
That's very black and white thinking, though. A lot of us do this: we think that you're either right or you're wrong. If you could have done it differently, it means you made a mistake, you screwed up, you should feel bad.

I think Rainbow's T has the confidence to say she could have done something differently. You can often do things differently. It doesn't mean you should necessarily be in the doghouse, as it were.
Thanks for this!
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