He is a good husband. He tries as hard as he can. Apparently last night he just got tired of me saying something over and over.
He does not like to talk about things that upset him. For instance, I knew I was abused as a child. When I was on a wrong med for a few days, it brought back the actual memories of it. He could not talk to me because he would get mad about the situation. The memory thing just gets him because of redundancy. Unfortunately, every female in my family as far back as my great-great grandmother has had a major MI. I only found it out recently this summer. He wants to fix me, he just doesn't want me to feel pain. It's weird how he works things out. I have driven all friends away that I have ever had. All family members as well, until the past month or so.
I do play on his ignorance to get information. I know it is wrong. People at work are straight with me, we are a good family there, it is just that I am a bit of a different person there. They just view me as a good person finally getting help.