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RP: If your H is really concerned and doesn't want you to feel pain.. then he needs to understand that he can help you not feel pain by helping you identify your behaviours and triggers so that you know what to bring in to your T. And that calling you "bat-Sh**-crazy" isn't helping.
Maybe he is never going to be a good listener, but he CAN actively help you to not feel pain by being an outside observer for you. I think if he went to visit the T too that might help him see how he can help.
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