hey denim, me and my ex gf of 3 years just split for good about a month ago. I know where your coming from, constant arguments, fighting over nothing half the time and not being able to communicate. We took each other for granted too id say.

After everything ive gone through and what im going through now, i realize that i have too grow up some. If you really love this guy, i think giving yourself the opportunity to grow and better yourself is the best plan of action.

Maybe your both not emotionally mature for the relationship yet, maybe thats why your communication fails but i think if you grow a bit and let him realize what hes lost while also letting him grow too. You can get what you want in the end.

im 26 and i wanna marry K (my ex) but she sees me like a fool and is frustrated after so many upsets with me, so trying now would only be futile.

take your time with it, and let life bring you what may- i know it sounds stupid, trust me im hard headed.... K dumped me over 30 times and i kept going back because i loved her and i wanted to be with her, but i never took into account her frustration and why it was coming up until today - i just need to change my life and my expectations of others and just mature a bit.

Maybe thats what you and your dude need too, dont rush it girl... if you do it might just blow up again, just do you! Focus on your things and really give it serious time and dont beg for him back.

i begged after a 9month break and got her back but i never changed cause i spend those 9 months crying about her- dont wallow and run in the same place like i did.

be strong denim! its attractive! lol

Good luck!