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Originally Posted by almostthere
Hi! I'm very sorry to hear your story. U went to your therapist and exposed all your inner feelings and workings of your mind. What usually happens whenu share the inner workigns of your mind is that all your weaknesses as a human be come to the surface and now u become vulnerable! Don't u see what happened here? I'm sure u c it now!
I've had the same thing happen to me but not with my T. Since then I've been inprisoned in my own hell. I feel worthless and abused.
If in your heart u felt that going to a T was necessary to work things out in your mind then that's ok. U were looking out for yourself... the only problem was is that your T saw it as an opportunity to take advantage of your trust that he, or she, would be able to help u.... What he did was take advantage of u and u had every right to report him.
I hope ur husband can find it in his heart to forgive u...
Good luck to u and I wish u all that best....
Hi
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Thank you almostthere,
I realise that what my therapist did was very very wrong, however at the same time I enjoyed our meetings and looked forward to seeing him. I still miss him but am slowly letting him go. He is no longer in mind every waking hour. Sometimes I allow myself to indulge and fantasize about being with him but i no longer obsess about him.
I see no point in telling my husband what happened. It wont change the situation. The situation is what it is. What good is telling my husband going to do? There's nothing to be gained by telling him....i would prefer to spare him the pain. What happened happened and im dealing with it the best i can. Bringing my husband into the situation would just make matters worse.
Hope you are in a good place and wish you luck and happiness also
xxx