Perhaps people don't hate you but rather don't really understand you because you tend to act differently. Sometimes people attack that. Maybe they want to try to make you "fit in." You describe yourself as a writer and I can see you like to write and have an audience. Maybe you could also aim your talents at writing books with your style. There might well be some money to be made. As for message boards and communicating there are norms that are unseen and rules that are implied or made available. Just like in regular society, so it is portrayed here. With that I'm not telling you to be anyone else just how I think it is. We are all characters on the great stage of life.
<font color=orange>Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.</font color=orange>