...I don't know the history...just coming in the middle, I agree you must be honest...
also, I would not hesitate to dial 911/your emergency number when he gets violent. He needs to be out of the house for you to have a chance with your younger one, be available for your daughter, and to keep everyone safe. Someday, he may turn himself around but you aren't going to be able to do any more for him besides let him take the consequences of his own behavior and hope that it sinks in one day. Hope you plan to make some positive plans with the other two----you could all help each other out it sounds...& please stop beating on yourself.
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