Im so sorry to hear things are falling out with him again. I agree he needs to be removed and put somewhere that he can no longer hurt you or your other children. You are a wonderful mother, I have been reading your post for a very long time now and I can tell from all your posts that you are a great mom. Dont underestimate yourself. You can requrest the court to put him in the hospital. I would do that if it were me. I hope things get better for your family very soon. Hugs