My husband and I used to argue all the time even though we were madly in love. One day I told him I did not like this situation. He said he did not either. We made a decision at that time that we would stop arguing. We did and things are so nice now.

Anger, yelling and arguing can be habits that take effort to break. When you BF yells at you ask him if he is upset with you and then discuss the issue. Tell him you do not like being yelled at and that you will leave the room if he starts. Sometimes all you have to do is remind him he promised not to yell.

If things are too bad and they are impacting your self esteem (it looks like they are) you may want to consider leaving. What benefit do you get from the relationship? Is it worth giving up the things you are losing to stay with him?