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Originally Posted by silver reeds
But the horrible twist is that she now seems to have closed off, signs of moving on, and is coping with it better and I’m now hurting because we’d built an emotional attachment when talking for past 2 months and now it feels like a 'break up' in a weird way. Just want this pain to end.
Any advice would be amazing
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I know you're hurting and it's to be expected...emotional attachment is nearly always more powerful than physical (in my experiance). She's probably only trying to detach herself from her expectations of what she hoped could 'be'...not from you. Let her find her equilibreum and remember, being honest with her was the kindest thing you could have done. Let her take the lead, contact wise, and take your time. I wish I could be more helpful, but at least I have experiance with this situation.
