sigh. I just had a huge fight with her over text messages. She wanted the whole weekend to spend together. Knowing how irritable I am right now I said that would be a bad idea. Then all of a sudden I am assaulted with "why can't you do this for me! I never get affection from you!". I try to explain I can't just turn it off like a switch, but she is off and running already about how I don't give this or that or the other thing. I tell her I can't control my moods and make myself available to her no mater how I want to. now at this point I am pissed that she thinks I can just snap out of it and give her what she wants because she describes how much she needs it. If I could give it I would give it but I can't so why does she keep telling me how hurtful I am when I say as much?

I am a hairs breath from making myself single so I don't have to deal with this crap