Thanks everyone for your replies, I appreciate them.
I also find it interesting to see who hasn't replied to this

but I am more than happy for this thread to end here, so please don't feel pressured to reply anyone!
I am feeling quite a bit better today, thanks again for your replies. I wish everyone who has ever replied to any of my posts the best day they can possibly have!
I did say that I have been feeling black and prickly, so if this reply comes out a little prickly, that is why. Perhaps tomorrow I will be more warm and fuzzy again ...
Take care,
Fuzzy