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Originally Posted by gayleggg
She may be pulling away as a way to deal with the grief she feels from the rejection. Sometimes it is hard to remain friends when one has romanitic feelings and the other one doesn't. She may need you to let her go, so she can move on and find some who can give her what you can't. It may be that after the rejection heals you can remain friends but it's pretty rare. Sorry to be so discouraging.
Gayle
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Thank you. Maybe you're right, and i need to let her go. It's heart wrenching seen as we had a deep emotional bond and i know alot about her past hurts. I think today for the first time in a week, i sensed a distance in her communication. I'm tempted to cling on for dear life.Feel a panic rising, knowing that she's going. I keep playing pretend that it's fine and nothing is going on underneath the surface i,e we are drifting apart.So sad.