My step-son is 23, son is 36, daughter is 40. My Mother is 81 this last May. It is like an being in-between so many lives, and I didn't mention the g.kids....the oldest adult-children are usually living their lives but still want the comforts of Mom at times. I was the same way, but elder parents rely on their adult children to care for them too. It is at times a bitter-sweet spot to be in. I tend to remember all the birthdays, holidays and special events we've shared over the years. And would not trade it in for the world.

warm regards
Jade