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There's no excuse for abusive behavior. I don't care how much someone rolls their eyes, says things you don't like, doesn't understand you. Nor is any diagnosis in the DSM an excuse.
Just because, from a certain point of view, it's not your fault, doesn't mean that on some level some responsibility cannot be taken for behavior that hurts others. I think it can be understood, but owned at the same time. And with room for compassion for those on the other side. No one is under any obligation to 'put up' with those with bipolar disorder just because of the disorder. Relationships are a two-way street.
To the OP specifically, I'm so sorry you're going through this. He needs help -therapy and probably psychiatrist. I hope for your sake and his (and your daughter's) that he gets it. This must be very hard for you and I wish you the best of luck.
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