I don't understand your title question but I can speak to your post. question There are a lot of women out there who just want the same thing you want. All you have to do is be in the right place at the right time. Not to be disagreeable but you don't need to hire a hooker and whatever happens is only as cheap and sleazy as you want it to be. For a single person (male or female) with a normal sex drive there's nothing wrong with a little sex for sex sake.